how do you know when you experienced it. what is there to look for? love is like a drug. you cannot ask someone else for their experience because it more than likely will not compare to yours. similarly with drugs. jack pops a couple shrooms and starts talking to his english speaking pet fish. diane pops a couple shrooms and cant figure out how to open her bedroom door which is now ten times larger than she is. each person's love experience varries just as each persons drug experience. so how do you know that its love? well, you just know. just like you KNOW you're experiencing a trip when you chose to do drugs. something is not right... or in the case of love, something is now seemingly undefinable. so, based on this asssumption of love, am i experienced? how the hell am i to know? it amazes me how young some couples are when they get married. really, its just so unthinkable from where i am standing. how bizzare is that?